I
found that when it was time for Spencer’s surgery I had no idea what to pack,
for myself or for him. When I went to the hospital to have Spencer I was given
a very thorough list of what I would need for me and what you need for a new
baby. How come there is no such list for
bringing a child to the hospital for surgery? Not even just this specific
surgery, for any surgery. I found myself calling and e-mailing the coordinator
at the hospital (I probably was driving him crazy) but the bottom line is I
knew I would be staying by Spencer’s side and it is not as if I live around the
corner from Sick Kids Hospital therefore if there was something I needed I
really wanted to have it with me. Luckily after asking the questions I pretty
much had everything I needed and if I didn’t someone brought it to me over the
course of the week. I think there needs to be a list and since there isn’t one
I have now created one for you.
For Baby:
Diapers – First of all you don’t need to bring diapers as the
hospital very graciously provides them.
(That b
eing said I was happy that I brought some diapers with me as I favour the Pampers
Swaddlers. They use the Pampers Baby Dry. The reason I liked the swaddlers especially
in this circumstance was that Swaddlers have that yellow line down the middle
that turns blue when the baby pees so when I couldn’t tell if Spencer was
peeing at least the swaddlers could tell me he was wet which is so important.)
Wipes - The hospital also provides Wipes but again I prefer the Pampers
Sensitive Baby Wipes so I was happy I had those as well. The hospital ones were
very dry and I found they didn’t clean the “surprises” as well.
Onesies – I found onesies that due up down the front (you
don’t want to put anything over the head for the first little while but I found
I did want to get him dressed a little so the onesies worked well. I needed a
whole bunch because they do get dirty. About 5 or 6 would be a good number to
bring.
Sleepers – Again ones that due up down the front. I found that
because it is an extremely hot summer I did not need sleepers really because
the hospital was quite warm. In the winter it would probably good to bring a
few maybe 3 or 4.
Clothes/ Pants – I only brought one sweat suit and that was to go
home in. That was sufficient. Depending on how fast your child recovers you may
want to dress him or her a day before you go home but not likely earlier than
that. Again only clothes that button or have a very large head hole.
Socks – Again you don’t need many but a couple pairs are good
for the baby. To make sure if it is cool then their feet will stay warm.
Blanket/Security Object - If your baby sleeps with a special blanket or has a
toy that they really like bring it with as it also provides comfort to them.
Food/Bottles/Sippy Cup - If your child prefers to drink using a specific
bottle or sippy cup bring it with you. They will provide bottles but Spencer
was much happier when he saw his own sippy cup. I think it was reassuring to
him and he drank and drank from it. They tried to give him a bottle and had no
luck as he doesn’t know what to do with a bottle. In fact, they were quite
surprised that a child of his age uses a sippy cup and not a bottle. I also
brought one container of pureed fruit, one box of cereal, and a couple yogurts
with me. He ended up not eating anything except a little bit of cereal but I
was glad I brought it all with. (There is a fridge on the floor or in our case
our room so we kept the food for him there and whatever we didn’t use we
brought home)
Baby Soap/Shampoo – I would highly recommend bringing this with you as
the hospital uses just a bar of soap which has a very strong perfumey smell to
bathe them with. I much prefer a light, baby soap, like Aveeno, so it is much
better to bring your own.
Pacifier – If your child uses a pacifier it is a must. They took
Spencer into surgery with it and he came out sucking it. He wasn’t so attached
before the surgery but after was very comforted by it.
Parents:
Let’s
start with the obvious…
Underwear/Socks/Bras etc. – You obviously need these with you. Bring at
least 5 days worth. If you are nursing don’t forget your nursing pads as well.
Pants/Capris/Shorts – Best thing to have is sweat/yoga type pants. You
don’t need a lot I really wore the same 2 pairs of pants the whole time. I had
a pair of Capri’s and a pair of long pants. That was sufficient. My husband had
one pair of sweat pants and one pair of shorts.
T-Shirts/Tanks/Long Sleeve Shirts/Sweatshirts – During the day a tank top or t-shirt was fine.
However, the nurses warned me that they put Polysporin in large amounts on the
incision and it seriously stains clothes. And boy was she right, the stains
that I had on my shirts from holding Spencer did not come out so make sure you are
not wearing clothes that you care deeply for because they too will be ruined.
At night, I found I was freezing, partly because I was exhausted but also I
just found the temperature really dropped at night so a long sleeve shirt and a
sweatshirt was well worth it. I had 2 sweatshirts, both ruined but well worth
it.
Pajamas – Do not forget pj’s. You will not be doing a lot of
sleeping but keeping comfortable through the night is good.
Shoes – Comfortable, easy to put on and off. You will find yourself taking
them on and off all day long.
Next
onto toiletries…
Toothbrush and toothpaste
Travel bottles of Shampoo and
Conditioner – Each room does have its
own bathroom with a shower so having your own stuff I felt made me a little
happier.
Deodorant
Contacts/Glasses – If you wear contacts or glasses make sure you have everything
you need for that.
Hair clips or Elastic/Hair ties –
Very beneficial if you have long hair like me
Pain Meds – If you ever take Tylenol or Advil you need to bring
your own. They will not supply parents with anything only the children/babies.
Even if you don’t need it is better to have some on you just in case.
Other
Items that are a must:
Pillow and Blanket – I brought a warm blanket and my pillow with. This was
a very good move. The hospital will supply you with a sheet and a flannelette sheet
but I brought a wool one which was cozy and warm. This was great especially for
the night that Spencer spent in the ICU and we rested in the waiting room
there. That room was particularly freezing.
Towel – They will also supply you and your child with washcloths and towels
but they were small towels. I did shower every day so I was happy to have my
own large bath sheet for showering.
Other
Musts:
Cash – If you want to buy food most of the places within the hospital do
not take credit cards so you should make sure you have cash on you. The parking
lot is also cash only so make sure you have enough to cover the amount of time
you are staying. (A minimum of 4 days)
Snacks and Water – We went through quite a few bottles of water as the
hospital is very dry. Again there is access to fridges and freezers so if you
are a yogurt eater or other small snacks I would definitely bring some stuff
with as the food there can get quite expensive. Muffins, some fresh fruit were
all useful especially when you don’t have a large appetite like myself dealing
with all this stuff.
Books/Movies/Computer/Ipad/Magazines – Anything to occupy your time. There is a DVD player
and a large TV in the room so watching movies and t.v. does help pass the time.
Reading books and magazines are also good. There is also free Wi-Fi so if you check
e-mail or want to go on Facebook it is available to you.
Camera – If you choose to document this journey than you will want to have a
camera with you.
I
think I have pretty much covered everything you will need for the hospital
stay.